One of the hardest aspects someone can accept in life is that they should prioritize themselves. This isn’t in a selfish way. But if you’re invovled in some capacity to someone with Cluster B disorder, they will project towards you that what you’re doing is selfish. In relationships I was in over many years, I …
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Focusing on Myself
I have so much to update on here. Over 800 days since filing for divorce and over 1000 since being separated. No end in sight. I have been focusing on my. Mind and body. I advise others to do the same. I am over $400,000 spent as a middle class man defending myself and my …
2 Years
On this day 2 years ago, I said something that was deep inside me for years to my ex-wife. These 7 words began a campaign of terror and destruction. The night was filled with dramatic acting, crying, blaming me, telling me how perfect she was and it was my fault. What were these 7 words? …
The System is a Joke
My appeal to get the judge dismissed, a Writ of Prohibition, was sitting at a County Clerk’s office for 6.5 months. Not a week. Not a month. Over half a year. This Writ was to try and get someone new and fair to hear my evidence. Yet the county and their insiders sat on this …
Dealing with a Ex with Cluster B
They are so good at twisting things around, you think you are the problem. But it’s all a mind game. Add kids and the abuse rolls on
It’s Time to Fight
I’m in a few Father’s Rights social network groups. There have been a few suicides since my post back in June. There have been father’s who had their children removed from them even after the mother gets out of jail, is convicted of misdemeanors and felonies and the father is labeled a “deadbeat” or given …
Update On My Situation
500 days since filing for divorce. 700 days since my children were kidnapped under the guise of leaving for a hurricane. I’ve mentioned the story before but will get in to more detail on another blog post. The court system is an abysmal failure. Documented abuse of the children goes unanswered, financial and emotional abuse …
Word Salad
One thing I have learned in dealing with a person that is within the Cluster B group is that they will argue with you no matter what and have to get the last word in. Their competitiveness is boundless even in areas where they have almost no skill. Richard Grannon speaks to this very well. …
Resources for Help
One site that has helped me thru a lot of what is going on is here: https://shrink4men.com Dr. Tara Palmatier has given me a lot of insight on what I dealt with for years. Use these videos and articles to analyze your own situation
Guardian Ad Litem: A friend of the kids
Very rarely is this the case. As in my last post, the sexist projection that is the norm in Family Court today has got to change. Once this changes, then it’s a trickle down effect. Guardians (GALs) can’t shake this mindset. I’ve heard dozens of stories where a GAL was involved and one parent (usually …
Insight of a Father in Divorce 
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