One thing I have learned in dealing with a person that is within the Cluster B group is that they will argue with you no matter what and have to get the last word in. Their competitiveness is boundless even in areas where they have almost no skill.
Richard Grannon speaks to this very well. Once you start realizing what these people do, your eyes open up. They play that victim mentality to a “T” and get you to a place of mind-fuckery you never thought you could get to.
Once you see who they really are, you can heal.